Mortified, I tell you! That happened twice with two different women and I was no virgin. I remember shaking and the woman I was with asked me “are you shaking?” I went through a time in my early 20s when I wasn’t meeting anyone, wasn’t falling in love, wasn’t happy, and once I actually got with a woman I was terrified. I understand this although I’ve never been a fast humper.

Multiple bad experiences compound and they can hurt your sexual identity.

Easy, right? Well, for some men who may have had bad experiences with erection quality or premature ejaculation it’s not so easy. You will be talked about and it will be because you wouldn’t slow down. It achieves nothing but your own embarrassment. I’ve spoken to exes and friends who all had a man who went fast like the rabbit. I’ll also leave out a lot of very obvious things like “make sure there’s lubrication” because, well, it’s obvious. I want to address some basics here mostly for the benefit of the 20 something young men who grew up watching and very possibly imitating porn. If you’re the man in that situation then it can be a massive ego blow to not be knocking your lady’s socks off or at least slowly peeling them from her feet until the deed is done. A lot of those comments and discussions have to do with it being bad sex and that’s unfortunate for everyone. I have the internet and I can read, the latter really being a prerequisite for using the former, and I read a lot of comments by women talking about sex. I’m not trying to tell anyone what to do but for those guys that don’t really know what they’re doing hopefully this is useful. Second, if what you’ve got going is working for you and your partner then absolutely ignore everything I’m going to say. I think it’s more honest for pretty much every discussion outside the doctor’s office.

I much prefer the word ‘cock’ just as I prefer the word ‘pussy’.

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